How to Give Head: A Step-by-Step Guide for Pleasure, Comfort & Confidence

Introduction: Why Giving Head Is More Than Just a Skill

Learning how to give head isn't just about technique. It's about trust, confidence, and creating pleasure for your partner while feeling empowered in your own body. Whether you're new to oral sex or looking to up your game, this guide walks you through exactly how to give head in a way that's fun, safe, and satisfying for both of you.

Giving great oral sex is an act of intimacy, not just mechanics. And with the right mindset, hygiene, and communication, you'll feel more confident every time you go down.

For those looking to feel more confident and in control during oral play, using a natural performance enhancer like the EjaGuard Delay Spray can improve comfort and prolong pleasure.

Understanding the Basics of Oral Sex

Before diving in (literally), it's helpful to understand what makes oral sex enjoyable:

• Stimulation: Oral sex stimulates nerve-rich areas like the shaft, head, and frenulum.

• Variety: Mixing speed, suction, and tongue play keeps things exciting.

• Connection: Eye contact, dirty talk, and responsiveness create deeper intimacy.

Oral sex isn’t just a precursor to penetration. It can be the main event. To elevate sensation, consider using EjaGuard's flavored lubricants, which are body-safe and add a playful twist to your oral routine.

Hygiene, Comfort, and Consent

Good hygiene and mutual comfort are key to an enjoyable experience:

• Both partners should be freshly showered or wiped clean.

• Trimmed pubic hair can help reduce irritation.

• Use mouthwash or brush teeth at least 30 minutes before (avoid mint right before).

• Consent matters. Make sure both of you are into it and feel safe.

If you're new, talk about boundaries. For example, discuss if he wants you to swallow, use hands, or try deep throat. A quick rinse and a trim can go a long way. Pair your prep with a flavored lube from EjaGuard for added freshness and fun.

How to Give Head: Step-by-Step Breakdown

1. Foreplay First

Jumping right in may be tempting, but take your time. Build tension with kissing, licking the inner thighs, or teasing his shaft with your tongue.

2. Tongue & Lips Techniques

• Start by licking the shaft like a popsicle.

• Use flat tongue strokes on the underside (frenulum area).

• Swirl your tongue around the head.

• Gently suck, varying pressure and rhythm.

3. Deep Throat Tips (Without Gagging)

• Start slow and relax your throat.

• Breathe through your nose and tilt your head back.

• Use your hand on the base while focusing on shallow thrusts.

• You don't need to go deep to give good head. Partial deep throating plus hand action = magic.

4. Using Your Hands Effectively

• Wet your hand with saliva or lube.

• Match hand and mouth rhythm.

• Use twisting motions or double-hand grips for added sensation.

Hands help maintain control and reduce gag reflex pressure.

Tips for Different Penis Sizes

• Larger penis: Focus more on hands + head play. Deep throat isn't necessary.

• Smaller penis: Use lips and tongue to amplify sensation. Explore more scrotum and perineum play.

Oral sex is about technique, not size. Every penis responds differently.

Using Lube & Delay Products

Lube makes everything smoother and more comfortable. Use:

• Flavored lube: Tastes better and adds fun.

• Water-based: Easy to clean and gentle on skin.

• EjaGuard Delay Spray: If your partner finishes too quickly, this natural product can help them last longer.

Use a bit of lube on your hand or even inside the mouth (if safe to ingest).

How to Read His Body Language

• Shallow breathing: He’s getting close.

• Thrusting hips: He wants deeper or faster.

• Gripping sheets or moaning: You’re hitting the right spot.

Ask questions like:

• 'Do you like that?'

• 'Want it slower or harder?'

How to Talk About Oral Sex with Your Partner

• Before: Ask if they like receiving head. Discuss limits or fantasies.

• During: Encourage feedback. Make it playful.

• After: Ask what they loved and what they'd change next time.

Open communication boosts confidence and connection.

Safe Oral Sex Practices (STI Prevention)

• Use condoms or flavored dental dams, especially with new partners.

• Avoid giving oral if you have cuts, sores, or gum issues.

• Get tested regularly.

Protection isn’t unsexy. It shows care and responsibility.

Advanced Techniques: Teasing, Edging & Temperature Play

• Edging: Bring him close to orgasm, then stop stimulation. Repeat a few times before finishing.

• Temperature play: Alternate warm lube with a cold drink or ice cube in your mouth.

• Teasing: Lick slowly, make eye contact, whisper dirty things.

These tricks build tension and make the final release stronger.

FAQs

How do I give good head to a man without gagging?
Focus on the tip and use hands for the rest. Relax your jaw and take breaks.

What is the best way to give head if he finishes fast?
Use edging techniques, slow down rhythm, or try a delay spray like EjaGuard.

How can I make him moan during oral?
Use tongue swirls, hum softly, play with pressure, and watch for what he responds to.

Is it okay to swallow?
Yes, but only if you're comfortable. It’s a personal choice. Discuss it beforehand.

Can I give head if I have braces or sensitive teeth?
Yes, just cover your teeth with your lips. Focus more on the tongue and handwork.