How to Make Yourself Squirt: Step-by-Step Guide to Unlocking Female Ejaculation

What Is Squirting?

Squirting is a form of female ejaculation. It involves releasing a fluid—different from typical vaginal lubrication—through the urethra during intense sexual arousal or orgasm.

For some, it's a powerful release. For others, it feels like a deep wave of pleasure. This fluid is not urine, although it may contain traces due to its passage through the urethra. The experience is often tied to G-spot stimulation and intense clitoral arousal.

For those exploring intense solo pleasure, EjaGuard’s G-spot toys and dildos are crafted to enhance internal stimulation and help discover your body’s full orgasmic range.

Anatomy Behind Squirting

To learn how to make yourself squirt, understanding your body is essential.

Squirting often begins with the G-spot—a spongy, sensitive area located about 1.5–2 inches inside the vaginal canal on the front wall (toward your belly button). This is part of the urethral sponge, which surrounds the urethra.

Using EjaGuard’s lubricants during G-spot stimulation reduces friction and enhances comfort for deeper exploration of the urethral sponge.

When stimulated, the urethral sponge may swell and create pressure. With enough stimulation and relaxation, this can lead to ejaculation.

Pro tip: Practice slow breathing to keep your pelvic floor relaxed during stimulation. This helps build pressure without blocking the release.

Can Every Woman Squirt?

Here's the honest answer: not everyone will squirt, and that’s okay.

Some people are physically able to squirt but haven’t found the right technique. Others may experience intense pleasure without ejaculation. The goal isn’t just to squirt—it's to explore and enjoy your body.

If you haven’t squirted yet, don’t worry. This guide can still help you get closer to that sensation or simply enhance your solo pleasure.

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How to Make Yourself Squirt: Step-by-Step

Ready to explore? Here’s how to squirt by yourself, step by step.

1. Set the Mood

• Choose a quiet, private space

• Lay down a towel (squirting can be wet!)

• Use a water-based lube for comfort

• Relax your mind and body with deep breaths

2. Stimulate the Clitoris First

Start with light circular motions around the clitoris. This builds arousal and helps lubricate the vaginal canal. Use your fingers or a bullet vibrator if preferred.

3. Locate the G-Spot

Insert one or two fingers (palm facing up) and gently curl them toward your belly. Feel for a slightly rougher, sponge-like area. That’s the G-spot.

4. Use a 'Come Here' Motion

Once you’ve found it, apply firm but gentle pressure in a rhythmic, curved motion—like you’re gesturing ‘come here’.

Use consistent pressure and don’t forget to breathe. You may feel a growing sensation like needing to pee. That’s normal—don’t hold it back.

5. Stay Relaxed & Let Go

If you feel pressure building, resist the urge to stop. Let go. Push past the point of tension, and allow your body to release. That’s when squirting may occur.

You might release fluid in bursts or gentle flows. Either way, you’re doing it right.

Try pairing your session with a curved G-spot vibrator from EjaGuard to maintain consistent pressure and intensify your ‘come here’ motion.

Best Positions to Try Solo

Positioning matters when it comes to squirting.

1. Flat on Your Back (Legs Bent)

This gives easy access to your G-spot and lets you use both hands or a toy comfortably.

2. Squatting Over a Towel or Shower Floor

Gravity helps here. Squatting can make it easier to apply pressure and release when the time is right.

3. Pillow Under Pelvis

Raises the hips and angles your pelvis for deeper G-spot access.

Tools That Can Help

While fingers work great, some toys are specifically designed to help you learn how to squirt by yourself.

Top G-Spot Enhancers:

• Curved G-spot Dildos – Reach the right angle with ease

• G-spot Vibrators – Combine pressure + vibration for quicker results

• Glass or Metal Wands – Great for consistent pressure

Check out EjaGuard’s curated G-spot-enhancing toys — including metal and glass wands — for deep, controlled pressure that supports female ejaculation.

Common Myths About Squirting

Myth 1: Squirting is Just Pee

Not true. While it passes through the urethra and may contain some urine, it’s a separate fluid produced by glands near the G-spot.

Myth 2: Only Some Women Can Squirt

Many women can learn to squirt with the right stimulation and relaxation techniques. It’s more about exploration than biology.

Myth 3: If You Can’t Squirt, You’re Broken

Absolutely false. Squirting is just one type of pleasure—not the only one.

Safety & Hygiene Tips

• Always wash your hands or toys before and after use

• Use unscented water-based lube for comfort

• Pee before and after to avoid UTIs

• Keep a towel or blanket handy—fluid flow varies from person to person

Takeaways

Learning how to make yourself squirt is a journey, not a race.

Take your time. Explore your body. Enjoy the sensations. Squirting is not just about the final moment—it’s about unlocking a new level of connection with yourself.

If it doesn’t happen right away, that’s okay. Every touch, every breath, every try brings you closer.

FAQs

What does squirting feel like?

Many describe it as a mix of intense pressure, emotional release, and full-body climax. It's usually paired with or followed by an orgasm.

Can you learn how to squirt by yourself?

Yes. With practice, patience, and proper technique, many people can learn how to squirt during solo sessions.

Is it normal to feel like peeing before squirting?

Yes. That urge comes from stimulation of the urethral sponge. Instead of resisting it, try relaxing and letting go.

What helps trigger squirting the most?

G-spot stimulation paired with high arousal, deep breathing, and being fully relaxed. Curved toys and a comfortable position also help.

How long does it take to learn?

It varies. Some people squirt quickly, others take weeks. Focus on enjoying the process instead of rushing the goal.