🧨 50 Must-Try Sex Bucket List Ideas for Couples

Introduction

Looking to spice things up in the bedroom (or beyond)? Creating a sex bucket list might be just what you need. Whether you're in a new relationship or have been together for years, exploring new experiences together keeps things exciting.

Think of it like a relationship adventure guide — only much steamier. From fun sex ideas to bold fantasies, a sex bucket list lets you discover and share what turns you on. So why not turn up the heat and start checking things off?

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What Is a Sex Bucket List?

A sex bucket list is a collection of sexual experiences, fantasies, or activities that you want to try at least once in your lifetime — either solo or with your partner. It's not about doing everything all at once. Instead, it's about building intimacy, having fun, and pushing boundaries in a safe, exciting way.

You can make your list as sweet or as spicy as you like. From slow, sensual moments to more daring adventures, the goal is to explore what brings you and your partner closer — emotionally and physically.

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Why Every Couple Should Have a Sex Bucket List

Sexual ruts happen — especially in long-term relationships. A sex bucket list helps reignite the spark by adding anticipation and variety.

Here’s why it works:

• Boosts communication: Talking about fantasies increases trust and vulnerability.

• Builds anticipation: Having something exciting planned can boost desire.

• Breaks the routine: New positions, locations, or experiences stimulate fresh energy.

• Strengthens intimacy: Sharing new sexual experiences often brings partners closer.

Creating a shared list is also a fun way to learn what excites your partner — and discover new sides of yourself. Creating a shared list is a fun way to learn what excites your partner — and using tools like our EjaGuard Orgasm Gels can heighten the experience.

Top 50 Sex Bucket List Ideas for Every Couple

Here are 50 steamy, romantic, and daring ideas to start building your own bedroom adventure list.

Fun & Flirty

1. Have sex in the shower

2. Try role-playing (e.g., stranger at the bar)

3. Share a steamy makeout in public

4. Have a sexy photo shoot together

5. Use flavored lube for a sensual experience

6. Play strip poker or a sexy board game

7. Have a quickie somewhere spontaneous

8. Leave naughty notes for each other

9. Watch erotica or a sexy movie together

10. Do a slow striptease for your partner

Romantic & Intimate

11. Make love by candlelight

12. Write each other erotic letters

13. Share a warm bubble bath

14. Use massage oil for a sensual rubdown

15. Try morning sex (before coffee!)

16. Have a romantic sex session with soft music

17. Try tantric eye contact during sex

18. Say what you love about each other before and after

19. Have a lazy Sunday in bed all day

20. Plan a romantic sexcation

Kinky & Bold

21. Try light bondage (scarves, handcuffs, or silk ties)

22. Explore power play (dominant/submissive roles)

23. Use a blindfold to heighten touch

24. Try spanking (with consent!)

25. Try edging or orgasm control

26. Use a remote control vibrator in public

27. Explore a BDSM checklist together

28. Try anal play or pegging

29. Use nipple clamps or temperature play

30. Act out a favorite sexual fantasy

Experimental & Adventurous

31. Try sex in a different room of the house

32. Have sex outdoors (e.g., in the woods, beach, or backyard)

33. Book a hotel room for a night of fun

34. Use sex toys together

35. Do a 69 position

36. Try a new position from your favorite erotic novel

37. Have sex in front of a mirror

38. Do it while partially clothed

39. Try dirty talk or sexting

40. Try a threesome fantasy (real or imagined)

Bucket List-Level Bold

41. Attend a sex-positive workshop or retreat

42. Visit a sensual or erotic massage parlor (as a couple)

43. Go to a clothing-optional resort

44. Experiment with voyeurism or exhibitionism

45. Use a sex swing

46. Join a lifestyle or kink community

47. Try public play (safely and legally)

48. Have sex during a thunderstorm

49. Get intimate under the stars

50. Cross off every item on this sex bucket list (eventually!)

Tips for Creating Your Own Sex Bucket List

Ready to build your own? Here are a few tips to get started:

• Write separately, then compare: Let each partner write ideas privately first.

• Use categories: Like romantic, kinky, or spontaneous — so it’s easier to explore.

• Color-code by comfort: Green for ready, yellow for curious, red for not now.

• Be open-minded: Fantasies don’t mean you have to act them out — just talking about them can be exciting.

• Keep updating: Your desires may change. Revisit your list every few months.

How to Use the List to Strengthen Your Relationship

The list isn’t just about checking boxes. It’s about shared adventure. Here’s how to make it count:

• Set the mood: Create a fun vibe when trying something new.

• Talk after: Share what you liked, loved, or want to change.

• Celebrate small wins: Even small steps count. Be proud of your exploration.

• Respect boundaries: Consent is sexy. Never pressure your partner.

When both partners feel heard and safe, trying new things becomes a bonding ritual.

Conclusion: Start Your Bedroom Adventure Today

A sex bucket list isn’t about perfection — it’s about connection. Whether you're checking off romantic goals, kinky bucket list items, or just trying something flirty and fun, every new experience brings you closer.

So grab a notebook (or your phone), sit down with your partner, and start dreaming big. Your ultimate bedroom adventure is just a list away.

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FAQs About Sex Bucket Lists

What is a sex bucket list?

A sex bucket list is a personal or shared list of sexual experiences, fantasies, and activities you want to try in your lifetime. It can be romantic, kinky, or just playful.

How do I talk to my partner about making a sex bucket list?

Start with a casual conversation. Say something like, 'Hey, want to try something fun to spice things up?' Approach it with curiosity, not pressure.

Is it okay if some items on my list are fantasies only?

Yes! Some fantasies are just for fun — no need to act them out. Even sharing them can boost intimacy.

How often should we revisit our list?

Check in every few months. You might find new things to add or others you’re no longer curious about.

Can trying a sex bucket list improve our relationship?

Absolutely. Exploring new experiences together helps build communication, trust, and emotional intimacy.