25 Things To Try During Sex For More Pleasure, Connection & Fun
Why You Should Try New Things During Sex
Trying new things during sex helps build trust and connection. It shows both partners are willing to explore and grow together. Experimentation reduces routine, keeps the excitement alive, and often leads to more fulfilling experiences. Sharing fantasies and discovering what feels good together can bring a deeper sense of intimacy.
Exploring together with EjaGuard’s collection of sex toys can inspire fresh ways to connect and experience intimacy.
Communication Before You Experiment
Before trying new things in bed, talk openly with your partner. Set clear boundaries and use safe words if needed. Honest conversations about likes, dislikes, and limits help ensure both partners feel safe and respected. Consent is the foundation of a healthy and exciting sex life.
Foreplay Ideas To Heat Things Up
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Teasing Games: Blindfolds, feather ticklers, or whispered fantasies.
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Sensual Massage: Warm oils and soft hands can ignite the mood.
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Roleplay: Explore fantasies in a playful and consensual way.
Foreplay increases anticipation and builds emotional connection, making sex even more enjoyable. Using sensual lubricants from EjaGuard can heighten the sensations of massage or teasing games.
Fun Positions To Try For More Pleasure
Exploring different sex positions is one of the top things to try during sex. Here are some must-try ones:
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Yab-Yum: Deep intimacy, great for face-to-face connection【8†source】.
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Cowgirl: Gives the receiving partner full control【8†source】.
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Spooning: Perfect for slow, sensual sex【8†source】.
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Grinding Missionary: Focuses on clitoral stimulation【8†source】.
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The Cross: Unique angle for shallow penetration【8†source】.
Switching positions can enhance sensations and help prolong intercourse. Trying new positions with the help of EjaGuard’s dildos collection can add variety and stimulate different pleasure points.
Edging & Control Techniques
Edging, or the stop-start method, involves bringing yourself or your partner close to orgasm and then backing off. This helps build control over ejaculation and intensifies climax【7†source】. The squeeze technique works similarly but requires squeezing the base of the penis to delay orgasm.
Combine edging with the EjaGuard Delay Spray for even greater control over climax.
Using Lubricants & Delay Sprays
Lubricants reduce friction and increase pleasure. Delay sprays like EjaGuard can help men last longer by slightly numbing sensation.
Both tools can enhance comfort and make sex more enjoyable for both partners. Explore our range of EjaGuard lubricants and delay sprays to enhance pleasure and comfort during intimate moments.
Kegel Exercises For Better Performance
Kegel exercises strengthen pelvic floor muscles. They help with lasting longer, firmer erections, and even achieving orgasm without ejaculation【7†source】. Do both slow and fast Kegels daily for the best results. Stronger pelvic muscles mean better control and more intense pleasure.
NoFap Challenge & Sexual Stamina
Participating in the NoFap challenge can improve self-control and mental focus【9†source】. While some benefits are debated, many report increased stamina and heightened sexual sensitivity. Practicing abstinence can also reset your sexual response and enhance real-life intimacy.
Sex Toys & Tools Worth Trying
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Vibrators: Enhance clitoral or penile stimulation.
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Prostate Massagers: Can lead to powerful orgasms.
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Couples’ Toys: Designed for shared pleasure.
Exploring toys together can open new doors for pleasure and fun.
Aftercare & Emotional Intimacy
Aftercare includes cuddling, talking, or sharing affirmations post-intimacy. It helps both partners feel valued, respected, and emotionally connected. Don’t skip this important part of your sexual routine.
FAQs About Things To Try During Sex
How do I talk to my partner about trying new things in bed?
Be honest, choose a relaxed setting, and express your desire to explore together. Listen actively to their thoughts.
What positions help you last longer?
Spooning, side-by-side, and grinding missionary can slow the pace and reduce overstimulation【8†source】.
Do Kegels really work for better sex?
Yes, they improve control, stamina, and enhance orgasm intensity【7†source】.
How does NoFap affect sexual stamina?
Some claim it boosts focus and control, though results may vary【9†source】.
Is it normal to feel nervous trying new things during sex?
Absolutely. Start slow, communicate openly, and make sure both partners feel comfortable.
Conclusion
Exploring new things to try during sex isn’t just about spicing things up—it’s about deepening connection, boosting pleasure, and growing together. Whether it’s trying new positions, adding toys, or experimenting with techniques like edging or Kegels, every couple can benefit from a little curiosity and creativity in bed. Ready to explore? Start slow, communicate, and enjoy the journey to better intimacy.