Cunnilingus 101: How to Please Her with Oral Sex Like a Pro

Introduction: Why Cunnilingus Deserves Your Attention

Let’s face it—cunnilingus is one of the most underrated ways to please a woman.
Yet, when done right, it’s a game-changer.

Oral sex is more than just foreplay. For many women, it’s the main event.
In fact, studies show that most women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm—and cunnilingus delivers that better than any other technique.

Whether you're a total beginner or just want to improve your game, learning how to give cunnilingus is one of the best things you can do to become a more confident lover—and for extra help, you can explore helpful tips in the EjaGuard blog.

What is Cunnilingus?

Cunnilingus is the act of using your mouth and tongue to stimulate a woman’s vulva—especially her clitoris.

It’s often part of foreplay, but for many couples, it can be the main event.

Aside from giving physical pleasure, cunnilingus also offers:

• More intimacy

• Better communication

• Higher chance of orgasm for her

And let’s not forget—it shows you care about your partner's pleasure. And that’s sexy. For more variety and enhanced pleasure, consider EjaGuard’s orgasm gels, designed to heighten sensitivity safely during oral play.

Anatomy 101: Understanding the Female Pleasure Zones

If you want to master oral sex, you need to know where to focus.

Here’s a quick breakdown of the pleasure points:

💧 Vulva

The external part of her genitals. It includes the labia, clitoris, urethra, and vaginal opening.

🌸 Clitoris

The queen of pleasure. With over 8,000 nerve endings, it’s the hotspot. Focus here—but gently.

💦 Labia

The inner and outer lips. They’re sensitive and should be included in your exploration.

✨ G-spot (optional bonus)

Though internal, stimulating the G-spot with a finger while performing cunnilingus can intensify her pleasure.

A little anatomy knowledge goes a long way when learning how to please a woman orally.

Preparation Matters: Hygiene, Consent & Comfort

Before diving in, a little prep can go a long way.

✅ Hygiene

• Brush your teeth (but avoid mouthwash that burns)

• Trim facial hair

• Wash hands and face

Brush your teeth (skip the burny mouthwash), trim facial hair, wash your hands and face. If you're looking for a smoother experience, EjaGuard’s lubricants are flavored, water-based, and taste-safe.

✅ Consent

Always check in. Ask what she likes, if she's into it, and be open to feedback.

✅ Comfort

Make sure she’s relaxed, warm, and feeling good about herself. Confidence leads to better orgasms.

Top Cunnilingus Techniques That Actually Work

Ready to get to work? These cunnilingus tips will help you give her the most pleasure:

1. Start Slow

Begin with soft kisses on the thighs and outer lips. Build anticipation.

2. Use a Flat Tongue

Don’t poke. A wide, flat tongue is more pleasurable and less intense.

3. Alphabet Method

Try spelling letters with your tongue. Switch it up and ask her what feels best.

4. Suction & Pulsing

Gently suck or pulse around the clit, mixing it up with tongue flicks.

5. Use Your Fingers

Pair cunnilingus with G-spot stimulation for blended orgasms.

6. Don’t Stop Suddenly

If she’s close, keep going. Consistency is key for climax.

Best Cunnilingus Positions to Explore

Switching positions helps with access, control, and mutual comfort.

💞 The Classic (Lying Down)

She lies back, legs open, while you kneel between her thighs.

🪑 Edge of the Bed

She sits or lies at the edge of the bed while you kneel. Great access, especially for deeper licking.

🌈 69 (Mutual Oral)

Both partners receive oral at the same time. Just be sure you can still focus.

🔥 Face-Sitting (Queen’s Seat)

She sits on your face while controlling movement. Intense and dominant—if you’re into it.

Advanced Tips: Rhythm, Breathing & Tongue Control

Want to level up? These cunnilingus techniques add finesse to your oral game.

🎵 Rhythm Is Everything

Find a steady pace she enjoys. Don’t go too fast—go consistent.

🫁 Breathe Through Your Nose

Sounds silly, but it keeps you from running out of breath mid-session.

👅 Tongue Control

Use slow circles, figure-8s, and soft flicks. Vary your pressure.

🖐 Don’t Forget the Hands

Hold her thighs, caress her belly, or stimulate other erogenous zones.

Mistakes to Avoid During Oral Sex

Even good intentions can go wrong if you're not careful. Here’s what not to do:

• ❌ Don’t go straight for the clit—warm her up first

• ❌ Don’t use too much spit or go bone dry—aim for natural moisture

• ❌ Don’t treat it like a race—this is not about speed

• ❌ Don’t ignore feedback—listen to her moans or movements

Enhancing Oral with Lube, Toys & Delay Sprays

Ready to spice things up? These add-ons make cunnilingus even more enjoyable.

✨ Lubricants

Use a flavored water-based lube (like those from EjaGuard) to add smoothness and taste-safe fun.

🎮 Vibrating Toys

Tongue getting tired? Use a small vibe on her clit while you stimulate her with your tongue.

🕒 Delay Spray

Want to prolong the experience before transitioning to intercourse? Consider using EjaGuard’s Delay Spray.

Always check that any products are safe for oral use.

Communication = Better Orgasms

You don’t need to guess what she wants. Just ask.

• ‘Do you like this?’

• ‘Slower or faster?’

• ‘Where should I focus?’

Positive feedback loops create comfort—and that leads to stronger, more frequent orgasms.

FAQs About Cunnilingus

What is the best way to do cunnilingus?

Start slow, focus on her clit using a flat tongue, and build rhythm. Use your hands too.

Can cunnilingus help women orgasm?

Absolutely. Most women need clitoral stimulation to climax, and cunnilingus is perfect for that.

Should I use lube during oral sex?

Yes, especially flavored water-based lubricants. They improve comfort and reduce friction.

Is cunnilingus safe?

Yes, but use proper hygiene and protection if needed. Dental dams are available for extra safety.

How long should I perform cunnilingus?

As long as she enjoys it. Focus on her cues—moans, breathing, and body movements guide you.

Conclusion + Takeaways + CTA

Cunnilingus is more than a sexy favor—it’s a powerful act of love and connection.

With the right knowledge and a little creativity, you can turn oral sex into an unforgettable experience for her.