What Is Squirting?

Squirting—also called female ejaculation—is the expulsion of fluid from the urethra during intense sexual stimulation, especially g-spot stimulation. It's not just a porn trick or a myth. In fact, researchers have confirmed that squirting is real, natural, and experienced by many women worldwide.
Quick Facts:
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Squirting fluid comes from the Skene’s glands, located near the urethra.
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It typically happens with deep internal stimulation, especially of the g-spot.
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The fluid is not urine, although it passes through the same channel.
Understanding Your Anatomy

To learn how to make yourself squirt, you need to understand what you're working with. Squirting begins with g-spot stimulation—and knowing where and how to find it is key.
Where Is the G-Spot?
The g-spot is located about 1 to 2 inches inside the vaginal canal, along the upper wall (toward the belly button). It feels bumpy or ridged, different from the smooth surrounding tissue.
Key Parts Involved:
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G-Spot: Primary area for squirting stimulation.
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Urethra: Where female ejaculation fluid exits.
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Skene’s Glands: Sometimes called the female prostate; they’re responsible for the fluid.
Use a mirror or anatomy diagram to get comfortable with your body. You’ll build confidence the more you explore.
For a more interactive way to explore your anatomy, consider using a beginner-friendly G-spot dildo from EjaGuard's collection—perfectly shaped to help you identify and stimulate the right areas.
How to Make Yourself Squirt (Solo Guide)

Ready to try it yourself? Here’s a step-by-step method on how to make yourself squirt alone. Make sure you’re in a private, relaxed environment—this matters more than you think.
Step 1: Set the Mood
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Empty your bladder before starting.
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Use towels to reduce anxiety about mess.
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Relax with deep breathing or a warm bath.
Step 2: Use Lube Generously
Squirting usually requires firm and consistent stimulation. Lube helps reduce friction and makes everything feel smoother.
Pro Tip: Use a water-based lubricant like EjaGuard Natural Glide for safe, silky pleasure.
Step 3: Locate the G-Spot
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Insert one or two fingers with your palm facing up.
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Curve them in a 'come here' motion toward your belly button.
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Apply firm, steady pressure and note any urge to pee (this is normal).
Step 4: Stimulate Rhythmically
Continue pressing and releasing the g-spot in waves. You may feel pressure build like you’re about to urinate. Do not stop—this is usually the sensation just before squirting.
Step 5: Let Go
As pressure builds, try to relax your pelvic floor muscles. Don’t clench or stop the motion. If your body wants to release—let it. That’s the key to unlocking squirting for most people.
You might squirt just a little, or a lot. Either way, celebrate the success. You're learning your body!
Water-based lubes are also recommended by the Mayo Clinic for minimizing irritation during solo play.
Best Positions to Help You Squirt

Some positions are better suited for g-spot access and stimulation, especially if you're experimenting with a partner.
1. Woman on Top
Allows you to grind in a controlled rhythm. Perfect for finding the exact angle that stimulates the g-spot.
2. Doggy Style
This deep penetration angle helps hit the g-spot with precision. Try using pillows under the hips to improve the angle.
3. Coital Alignment Technique (CAT)
Lying in missionary with a pillow under the hips, the partner grinds rather than thrusts. The friction against the clit and deep penetration can boost your squirting potential.
4. Spoon Position
Slower and more intimate, this one allows for pressure and shallow thrusts that target the g-spot over time.
To further enhance g-spot stimulation in these positions, try using EjaGuard’s curved vibrators and G-spot toys, designed for targeted internal pleasure.
Tip: Use a toy like a curved G-spot dildo or a vibrator designed for internal use to increase your chances of success when solo.
Tips for Relaxation and Success
Squirting isn’t just physical—it’s also mental and emotional. If you’re anxious or tense, your body will hold back. Here’s how to help it along:
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Practice Kegel Exercises: These strengthen pelvic muscles and increase orgasm intensity.
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Try Edging: Get close to climax, then pause. Repeat. This builds sensitivity.
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Hydrate: Since fluid is expelled, staying hydrated is important.
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Keep Breathing: Holding your breath tenses the body—stay loose and present.
For an intensified climax experience, try combining Kegels with EjaGuard’s orgasm-enhancing gels.
Common Myths About Squirting
Myth 1: Squirting is just pee.
It’s not. While it does exit the urethra, scientific studies show it's chemically different from urine.
Myth 2: Every woman can squirt easily.
Not everyone squirts the same way, and that’s okay. Some need more practice; others may never squirt and still have fulfilling orgasms.
Myth 3: Squirting means you had a better orgasm.
Not true. Squirting and orgasm are separate experiences. You can have one without the other.
A study referenced in the National Library of Medicine confirms that the chemical composition of squirting fluid is not identical to urine, debunking this common myth.
Conclusion
If you’ve been wondering how to make myself squirt, now you’ve got the tools, knowledge, and confidence to explore this exciting part of your body. It may take time or come quickly (pun intended), but either way—it’s a journey of discovery.
So take it slow, enjoy the process, and remember: every woman is unique, and your path to pleasure is yours alone.
For those looking to amplify sensation and control, EjaGuard’s Delay + Glide Kit offers the perfect balance of stamina and smooth stimulation.
Ready to explore more?
Try combining Kegels, the right position, and a quality lube like EjaGuard Delay + Glide for the ultimate experience.