Introduction
Sex toys can turn up the heat, increase intimacy, and open up a new world of pleasure. If you're wondering how to sex with toys and make it a seamless, enjoyable experience for you and your partner, you're in the right place.
Let’s break it down step-by-step so you can introduce toys into your sex life in a way that feels safe, sexy, and exciting.
Whether you're experimenting for the first time or upgrading your play, our curated collection of sex toys offers something for every desire.
Why Use Sex Toys During Sex?

Adding sex toys to your bedroom routine isn’t just about spicing things up. It’s also about discovering what turns you on and bonding through shared experiences.
Benefits include:
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More intense orgasms
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Better communication
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Extended pleasure sessions
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Exploration of new sensations
Using sex toys with your partner can increase both physical pleasure and emotional closeness. Toys help you explore your body and theirs in ways you may not have considered.
Enhance the experience further with our lubricants that complement every kind of toy for smooth, pleasurable play.
Communicating With Your Partner

Not sure how to introduce sex toys in bed? Start with curiosity. Say something like, 'Would you be open to trying a toy together?' or 'I read something cool about couple toys, want to check it out?'
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Keep it light and playful
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Share your reasons for wanting to try
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Listen to your partner’s comfort level
Honest communication builds trust, which makes the experience way more fun and relaxing.
Step-by-Step Beginner's Guide
If this is your first time using sex toys with a partner, follow this easy guide:
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Choose a Toy – Start with a simple external vibrator or a couple’s toy.
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Read the Instructions – Safety first! Learn how it works.
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Try Solo (Optional) – Understanding how it feels alone helps you use it confidently together.
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Use Lubrication – A water-based lube is safe for most toys and feels great.
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Go Slow – Focus on teasing and building anticipation.
This beginner guide to sex toys keeps the pressure low and the excitement high.
If you're just starting, a simple vibrator can be a great introduction to exploring new sensations with your partner.
Types of Sex Toys & Their Purpose
Here’s a quick breakdown of the best sex toys for couples and how to use them:
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External Vibrators – Great for clitoral or nipple stimulation during penetrative sex
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Penetrative Toys – Such as dildos or vibrators; these can be used solo or together
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Remote-Control Toys – Fun for public play or role-switching in bed
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Delay Aids – Combine toys with products like EjaGuard Delay Spray to last longer
Using toys for better orgasms is about finding what works for both of you. Play around, laugh, and enjoy the ride.
Explore our full range of external vibrators designed for targeted stimulation during your intimate moments.
Fun Sex Toy Positions & Scenarios

Toys aren't just for foreplay. They can enhance many classic sex positions:
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Cowgirl + Clitoral Vibrator – She’s in control while using a small toy for extra stimulation
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Doggy Style + Plug or Vibrator – Stimulate other erogenous zones during penetration
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Mutual Masturbation + Delay Spray – Take turns watching and teasing while using toys
These setups keep things spicy while helping you last longer. Pair the EjaGuard Delay Spray with your favorite position to prolong pleasure and explore new sensations together.
Sex Toy Safety Tips
Knowing how to use sex toys with your partner means understanding safety too:
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Clean your toys before and after use
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Use water-based lubricant unless the toy says otherwise
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Avoid sharing toys without a condom
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Store in a cool, dry place
Sex toy safety tips protect your health and keep the experience enjoyable every time.
Conclusion: Try It Tonight
Now that you know how to sex with toys, why not explore it tonight? It’s a safe, natural way to deepen your bond and maximize pleasure.
Start slow, stay curious, and make your bedroom the ultimate adventure zone.
CTA: Ready to spice things up? Pair your favorite toy with EjaGuard Delay Spray for a night of control, confidence, and connection.